The Code of Aspirations (simplified)
The Need The Solution How It Feels How To Participate Code of Aspirations (you are here) Code of Aspirations Explanations Logistics (The following aspirations are reviewed at the beginning of each meeting. For the explanations behind these specific aspirations and...
How the Groups Feel
The Need The Solution How It Feels (you are here) How To Participate Code of Aspirations Code of Aspirations Explanations Logistics Sprinklers and Stages In support groups and CCT meetings, new participants are often stunned when their brilliant thoughts are met with...
The Solution
The Need The Solution (you are here) How It Feels How To Participate Code of Aspirations Code of Aspirations Explanations Logistics Group Breakdown I already told you what I miss in some of the world’s best groups. Now let me tell you what I plan to steal:...
July 15th Anniversary
Well, Wendy…another important date. Another Jamin-length monologue. Another cheesy slideshow. Another perfect day to tell you how I feel: Privileged. Grateful. Fortunate. The truth is, life sucks with you. But not very often, right now. And not because of...
A Treatise On Truth
Telling a True Story Is Impossible You’re going to find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly on our own point of view. -Ben Kenobi It has been heartbreaking, but maturing to grow to the realization that I cannot write my story from the god perspective. ...
Making Friends of Demons
10:30pm. My wife stood naked in front of me, offering herself. I was at least self-aware enough to be honest, “No thanks. I’d rather not be accepted right now.” A voice from the past had recently re-entered my home. It was innocuous on the surface,...
My Wife’s Five Men
My wife has been intimate with at least 5 different men since we’ve been married… and each of them was me. Preparing for the birth of our second child, Wendy and I have been sorting through our unorganized odds and ends of potential scrap-book materials. I am...
Sayings, Quotes, and Proverbs
I went through a phase, as I think most high schoolers do, where I collected quotes I thought sounded smart. This is not that list. These are the meditations I have returned to, one at a time, and great consideration through times of trauma. But it seems even...